183 | 5 Hard Works Worth Doing For Each Spouse After Infidelity Disclosure (Part 1)

Last week, we introduced a path toward true intimacy after infidelity is brought to light, beginning with full therapeutic disclosure.

 

Now we are unpacking five hard works worth doing for each spouse after infidelity disclosure. This week we will focus on the spouse who was unfaithful in the marriage, and because of our experience we will be speaking to husbands.

 

We’ll cover maintaining the integrity of the disclosure, participating in a meaningful recovery program, sharing the process with their wives, learning to speak the language of empathy, and rebuilding trust by becoming trustworthy.

 

Next week we will look at five hard works for betrayed wives. We will explore maintaining healthy biblical boundaries, resisting the temptation to manage their husband’s recovery, pursuing their own healing, reconnecting with God, and practicing forgiveness in its proper biblical context.

 

These lists are not exhaustive, but offer a practical foundation for moving beyond the immediate shock of discovery and beginning the work of faithful restoration.

 

We pray this blesses you,

 

 Johnny and Emily

 

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RELATED EPISODES:

Episode 127. 12 Markers of a Trustworthy Husband (Series Intro)

Episode 173. From Manager to Ally: Finding True Safety Without Policing His Healing

 

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