171 | Rupture and Repair in Your Marriage Beyond Sexual Betrayal

In this episode of Beyond Broken Vows, we get real about “rupture and repair”—because let’s face it, every marriage hits those moments where things fall apart.

 

We’re not talking about the big blow-ups that get all the attention; we’re talking about those quieter breaks in connection that happen after infidelity, when a simple misunderstanding or a triggered memory sends one of you reeling.

 

We dig into why it’s so important to address every rupture quickly, and how both spouses need to examine their exact role in it—without pointing fingers.

 

We walk through four root responses we all default to and we give you actual sample statements for both the initiator and the responder, because humility isn’t just a nice idea—it’s the key that unlocks real healing.

 

You’re not alone in this struggle so grab something to takes notes with and join us today to get some insights and encouragement for your healing journey.

 

We pray this blesses you,

 

Johnny and Emily

 

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